My mother-in-law never cared much for me, that was no secret. Still, I didn’t think she’d go as far as she did just to make a point. What she didn’t count on was my husband standing up for me when it mattered most.
From the moment I married Jake, his mom Sharon made it clear I wasn’t the DIL she wanted. Comments about my makeup, my nose, my hair — all “well-meaning” digs. I let it go.
I put up with it mostly for my husband, Jake, who’s always tried to play peacemaker. He loves his mom, and I figured if I ignored the digs, things might improve. They didn’t.
When I got pregnant, she suddenly got super involved. Bought baby clothes. Texted weekly. Then she invited us to a “small gender reveal dinner.”
At first, I didn’t know what to make of it. Part of me hoped she was finally warming up to me. But another part kept wondering if it was just for show. The change felt too sudden, too perfect — like she was performing for an audience I couldn’t see.
The morning of the gender reveal, I felt uneasy. I stood in front of the mirror, smoothing down my dress, but my chest was tight. Something about the whole thing didn’t feel right. I kept telling myself to relax — it was just dinner, just family — but I couldn’t shake the nerves.
As we pulled up to Sharon’s house that evening, my stomach turned. I took a deep breath, told myself I was overthinking, and followed Jake to the door.
We walked into a house packed with 25+ people. I was seven months pregnant and instantly overwhelmed. But I smiled through it.
Sharon rushed over with a wide smile. “There she is — the glowing mama!” she said, giving me a quick kiss on the cheek. “You made it just in time. Everyone’s been dying to see the bump.”
I glanced around the room. “This is… more than a few people,” I said, keeping my voice even.
“Oh, don’t be silly,” she replied. “It’s just close friends and some neighbors. I figured the more, the merrier. It’s a celebration, right?”
Jake leaned in and whispered, “You okay?”
I nodded, though my hand was already gripping his. “I just thought it would be small. She said small.”
He looked at his mother. “You told us this was going to be a little dinner, Mom.”
Sharon waved her hand. “It is little — compared to a wedding.”
Jake gave her a tight smile. “Mom, this isn’t what you told us. You said it would just be a few people.”
She laughed lightly, brushing invisible crumbs off her blouse. “Oh, Jake, don’t be so stiff. It’s just a few extras. Everyone was so excited when they heard. I couldn’t say no!”
“You could’ve mentioned it,” he replied, glancing around. “She’s seven months pregnant. This is a lot.”